# Find Yourself (2020)

> A successful career woman caught between a younger lover and a steady, older life coach as her company faces takeover.

Canonical page: https://ember.film/tv/83116

## Facts

- Seasons: 1
- Episodes: 42
- Episode runtime: 45 min
- Status: Ended
- Genres: drama, romance
- Created by: Ding Zi Guang, Zhang Zhuo
- Network: Mango TV, Hunan Television
- Cast: Victoria Song, Song Weilong, David Wang, Zhang Yujian, Yu Shuxin, Yang Zhiying, Zhou Qiqi, Elaine Cai
- TMDB rating: 7.4/10
- IMDb: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt11569628/

## Ember's analysis

- Pacing: measured
- Intensity: moderate
- Complexity: accessible
- Violence: none
- Tone: earnest, emotional, tense, glossy, melancholic

## What critics say

Audiences rate the series positively, with its romance and career storyline drawing favorable attention despite a limited critical record.

## Synopsis

Find Yourself (2020) is a Chinese romantic drama series created by Ding Zi Guang and Zhang Zhuo, broadcast on Mango TV and Hunan Television. Victoria Song plays He Fanxing, an accomplished career woman whose company is at risk of being acquired just as her relationship with the younger Yuan Song (Song Weilong) runs into social disapproval over their age gap. Into her emotional unrest steps Ye Luming (David Wang), a mature and steady older man who becomes her life coach and, in turn, a source of friction between the couple. The engine of the story is her struggle to decide between the man she loves and the traditional expectations about marriage pressing on her, while boardroom tensions and office rivalries play out around her. Told across a single season of 42 episodes, the series unfolds as one continuing romantic story rather than standalone cases. Its tone is earnest and emotionally charged, with jealousy and quiet heartache balanced against ambition and workplace pressure. Set in contemporary urban China, it sits within the Chinese television romance tradition. Fans of Meteor Garden, Ugly Betty and Sex and the City will find resonance in its blend of glamorous professional life and tangled romance.

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